Sonnet 42. That thou hast her, it is not all my grief
That thou hast her, it is not all my grief
And yet it may be said I loved her dearly;
That she hath thee, is of my wailing chief
A loss in love that touches me more nearly.
Loving offenders, thus I will excuse ye:
Thou dost love her, because thou knowst I love her;
And for my sake even so doth she abuse me
Suffering my friend for my sake to approve her.